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I was given the book, The Wild Braid – A Poet Reflects on a Century in the Garden, by Stanley Kunitz.

It’s a collection of conversations and poems from 2002-2006 when Kunitz was in his mid-90s.  Yes…90s.

He writes about his garden and his poetry; with such lovely metaphors about life that, well, I felt compelled enough to post a few:

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There’s that sense that unless something’s in bloom, nothing is going on; it’s dead in the garden.  People talk about a plant being “done” –“the salvia’s done for the season” — as if blooming is all a plant has to do.  That’s a complete fallacy and limitation. 
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…you need the silence.  So much of the power of a poem is in what it doesn’t say as much as in what it does say.  As when a flower is preparing to bloom, or after it has bloomed, when it is suspending its strengths and its potency and is at rest — or seems to be, its mission to flower and to produce seed having been fulfilled. 

Almost anything you do in the garden, for example weeding, is an effort to create some sort of order out of nature’s tendency to run wild.  There has to be a certain degree of domestication in a garden.  The danger is that you can so tame your garden that it becomes a thing.  It becomes landscaping. 

I’m truly blessed.

Book cakes by my talented friend Jennifer. http://www.jennyscakeswithcharacter.com

I’m turning 50.  There, I said it.

Fifty.  That round nasty number.  And guess what?

It’s really not that bad.

What’s made it less painful?  A life of faith, family and friends.

When I reflect on this milestone, I think about Jane Austen (I know I obsess on Jane Austen — but hear me out — and have some respect for your elders).

Back in her day, women frequently died in childbirth; or from the flu; or from any old infection since their form of antibiotics was more along the line of blood-sucking leeches.

In fact, poor Emily Bronte’s life was snuffed out early due to common unsanitary conditions.  She simply drank a glass of contaminated water (the source being a runoff from the church’s graveyard) while attending her own brother’s funeral in 1848.  She rejected ‘medical treatment” saying she’d have “no poisoning doctor” near her.  (Actually, I’ve felt the same way at times).

Anyway, where am I going with this?

What does this have to do with turning 50?

Simply…I’m grateful.

I’m grateful to be alive.

A journal and flowers to ease the pain (of 50).

One cannot have too large a party. A large party secures its own amusement.   — Emma, Jane Austen

That being said, if you’re in the Long Island area on Friday, March 16th, drop by the Malverne Public Library at 3:00 P.M. as we discuss one of the world’s most widely read writers in English literature.   Joining me will be musician and fellow thespian, Kelly Tanza.

It should be a delightful afternoon, indeed.

RSVP thither:

“The Life & Writings of Jane Austen”

“If I can stop one heart from breaking…”
— Emily Dickinson

If I can stop one heart from breaking,
I shall not live in vain;
If I can ease one life the aching,
Or cool one pain,
Or help one fainting robin
Unto his nest again,
I shall not live in vain.